Use `derive-builder` in the runner crate

[saulecabrera]

The javy-runner contains a builder that reconciles all the CLI options and therefore it has grown (and will continue to grow) to contain a wide range of fields. As per @surma's suggestion, we could consider using the derive-builder crate to reduce some of the boilerplate.

Originally posted by @surma in https://github.com/bytecodealliance/javy/pull/748#discussion_r1751623095

[surma]

Just discovered typed-builder. Both wildly popular. Worth looking and comparing.