feat(pg-connection-string): warn if non-standard ssl options are used

[hjr3]

In preparation for v3.0.0, we start warning users to be explicit about the sslmode they want.

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[hjr3]

Could warn this way for repeat callers: https://nodejs.org/api/process.html#avoiding-duplicate-warnings

TIL - implemented