Add vsock-relay and fixed kernel to nitro-shim for star-randsrv

[DJAndries]

Summary

• adds vsock-relay for higher throughput
• adds custom built kernel to address kernel memory leak issue

Type of Change

• [ ] Product feature
• [x] Bug fix
• [x] Performance improvement
• [ ] Refactor
• [ ] Other

Tested Environments

• [ ] Development
• [ ] Staging
• [ ] Production

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Manual Test Plan