Add hooks before auth / session create

[Zeko369]

Closes: #3462

Feature Checklist

• [x] add onAuthMiddleware hook for queries/mutations
• [ ] add onAuthorize hook for client side

What's missing here is that onAuthorize on client side is called on every render and it would be better to just call it when session changes

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[itsdillon]

@Zeko369 were you able to get to the docs for this? Great work by the way, as usual.