feat(s3-notifications): add option to skip permissions for LambdaDestination

[dirkluijk]

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Issue # (if applicable)

Closes #34747

Reason for this change

See issue

Description of changes

Added a flag to skip permissions

Describe any new or updated permissions being added

n/a

Description of how you validated changes

Added additional test

Checklist

• [X] My code adheres to the CONTRIBUTING GUIDE and DESIGN GUIDELINES

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