nccl-tests container: fix cuda driver mismatch

[verdimrc]

Issue #, if available: nccl-test with container image fails with system has unsupported display driver / cuda driver combination.

Description of changes:

• update cuda compat to fix error:

   7: ip-10-1-113-84: Test CUDA failure common.cu:894 'system has unsupported display driver / cuda driver combination'
   7:  .. ip-10-1-113-84 pid 738939: Test failure common.cu:844
  

• fix docker build variable expansion failure

• ban veth_def_agent interface from NCCL consideration (SMHP)

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