fix: updateUserAttributeSetting during add/update/push flows

[akshbhu]

Description of changes

• adds attr during amplify add / amplify update flows
• adds this attr during amplify pull / push / build workflow
• for console and studio builds , this will work fine as contents are pushed with force
• for cli Cx , if Cx doesn't update the auth category , it needs a force push to update the userPool with this attribute.

Issue #10561

Description of how you validated changes

• updated unit tests
• Manually tested
• https://app.circleci.com/pipelines/github/aws-amplify/amplify-cli/9793/workflows/f25bee72-b282-451e-a01e-eb673df2c60c

Checklist

• [x] PR description included
• [ ] yarn test passes
• [ ] Tests are changed or added
• [ ] Relevant documentation is changed or added (and PR referenced)
• [ ] New AWS SDK calls or CloudFormation actions have been added to relevant test and service IAM policies

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[danielleadams]

@akshbhu this needs a rebase