Identify “PR process” components that are preventing high-quality contributions

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This was mentioned in Astropy Coordination Meeting 2025 breakout ("how to balance all the things").

Also see:

• https://docs.astropy.org/en/latest/index_dev.html
• https://github.com/astropy/astropy-project/blob/main/policies/pull-request-review-and-merge.md
• #448
• #445