clear metadata from records passed to for_update/destroy

[barnabasJ]

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Some metadata, like upsert_skipped, could be passed down to changes if it's not cleared from the resource when we accept the record as input. This could lead to changes doing the wrong thing if they check for values inside the record's metadata.

Operating system

Ubuntu 24.04

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[zachdaniel]

For now we can do this just for upsert_skipped?.

[zachdaniel]

And this should happen as basically the first thing in Ash.Changeset.for_update and Ash.Changeset.for_destroy.