fix: Process webhook refresh in background to not block the request (#14269)

[dhruvang1]

This PR moves the webhook processing for both Application and ApplicationSet to a goroutine. This would allow the server to quickly send HTTP 200 to the webhook request adhering to the quick response guidelines set by GitHub, GitLab, etc.

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Fixes #14269