python tests: support setuptools >=62.1 libpaths

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The distutils bundled with setuptools >= 62.1.0 changes its platform specifier format in paths (https://github.com/pypa/setuptools/pull/3258/files#diff-769cc4d175b0f8a3dbcfdb24c7d29e8a468ab6931abecf54c868cb4d5d28e9a1). This causes the tests to fail without this modification. Also allow the older style for backwards compatibility.

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