[Feature] Bump caffeine version to 3.x.x

[FangYongs]

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Motivation

Blocked by #4140 . Subtask of #3827 and related to #4096 . After java version is upgraded to java11 in paimon, we need to bump caffeine to the latest 3.x.x version to fix issue in https://github.com/ben-manes/caffeine/issues/1757

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