Connect only to bonded devices

[sicanins]

Hi, sorry for posting here, but I am trying this alread for days now. Using nimBLE as peripheral on an ESP32 and it basically works fine. But one important detail I just cant figure out: my device can be put into a pairing state where it should accept all requests and bond to new devices. I does that currently. But how do I avoid pairing/bonding to now devices while I am not in that state?

Any help would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks!