[INLONG-5628][DataProxy] Add buffer limit of sink dispatch queue

[luchunliang]

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• Title: [INLONG-5628][DataProxy] Add buffer limit of sink dispatch queue
• Fixes #5628

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[gosonzhang]

@luchunliang, the PR has conflicts that must be resolved, and I see that LinkedBlockingQueue is used in some sinks, but there is no corresponding replacement for BufferQueue. Can it be replaced uniformly?