feature: add single server rale limit

[xjlgod]

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Ⅰ. Describe what this PR did

Support flow limiting control for a single server：

• Flow limiting components: Select Bucket4j components to implement flow limit control.
• Processing flow limit control: Process flow limiting at the top level in DefaultCordinator, and perform flow limiting checks in the onRequest method. Only GlobalBegin request will be limited.
• Transaction end identity: All transaction ends need to be able to correctly identify flow limit control and throw corresponding exceptions.
• Metrics: Use a new metrics record events when current limiting is triggered

Ⅱ. Does this pull request fix one issue?

Ⅲ. Why don't you add test cases (unit test/integration test)?

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