[WIP]optimize : reorganize the usage of task session manager(separate listener and manager)

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Ⅰ. Describe what this PR did

在https://github.com/seata/seata/issues/4857的问题里，分两个pr解决

• 简单的把外部用到 非rootmanager的地方改造回同语义的rootmanager方法 https://github.com/seata/seata/pull/4858
• 这个pr把listener从sessionmanager剥离，并进行同语义的改造

按计划把第一个pr合并之后，这个pr就可以把getRetryRollbackingSessionManager()和getRetryCommittingSessionManager()这些直接删掉了

这个pr做了以下几件事

1. AbstractSessionManager不再实现SessionLifecycleListener
2. SessionManager不再继承SessionLifecycleListener
3. 去掉所有session.addlistener的操作（因为现在已经没有类属于SessionLifecycleListener）
4. SessionManager里面定义和SessionLifecycleListener同名的方法（用于处理主流程），这样AbstractSessionManager里面的方法实现无需改动，但调用方需要整改
5. GlobalSession作为调用方，在所有遍历lifecycleListeners之前，优先调用SessionHolder.getRootSessionManager()的同名方法进行主逻辑处理
6. AbstractSessionManager的updateGlobalSessionStatus方法要进行set status
7. 单测整改（涉及sessionholder的地方要初始化，xid缺失的地方要补充）

这个pr把addlistener的操作已经全部去掉，但这个方法和listener自身机制保留（目前闲置），以后有必要再使用 由于现在SessionLifecycleListener只有被GlobalSession调用，所以只需要改好GlobalSession就可以 上图是用临时改方法名的方法用错误统计来显示全部的调用

Ⅱ. Does this pull request fix one issue?

fixes https://github.com/seata/seata/issues/4857

Ⅲ. Why don't you add test cases (unit test/integration test)?

Ⅳ. Describe how to verify it

Ⅴ. Special notes for reviews

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Codecov Report

Merging #4881 (0feda8b) into 2.x (4b724e2) will decrease coverage by 0.11%. The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...java/io/seata/server/coordinator/AbstractCore.java	54.02% <ø> (-1.04%)	:arrow_down:
.../java/io/seata/server/coordinator/DefaultCore.java	47.59% <ø> (-0.65%)	:arrow_down:
...in/java/io/seata/server/session/SessionHolder.java	60.18% <ø> (-1.24%)	:arrow_down:
...o/seata/server/coordinator/DefaultCoordinator.java	44.89% <100.00%> (-2.12%)	:arrow_down:
...o/seata/server/session/AbstractSessionManager.java	62.31% <100.00%> (+0.55%)	:arrow_up:
...in/java/io/seata/server/session/GlobalSession.java	69.92% <100.00%> (-10.61%)	:arrow_down:
...ver/storage/db/session/DataBaseSessionManager.java	41.17% <100.00%> (+4.33%)	:arrow_up:
...rage/redis/store/RedisTransactionStoreManager.java	74.67% <0.00%> (-0.79%)	:arrow_down:
... and 4 more

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