[Improvement] add error messages when starting the hugegraph-server fails in the function wait_for_startup of util.sh

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Feature Description (功能描述)

When we fail to curl in the function wait_for_startup in the following code (I guess),

status=$(curl -I -s -k -w "%{http_code}" -o /dev/null "$server_url")

there are no error messages of logs

So, we should ensure that we can get the error message instead of waiting for timeout