[HUDI-8066] cherry pick Flink 1.18 into 0.14.2

[HuangZhenQiu]

Change Logs

Cherrypick the diff https://github.com/apache/hudi/pull/9949 into branch release-0.14.2

Impact

No

Risk level (write none, low medium or high below)

No

Documentation Update

No needed

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