[C++] align object graph xlang serialization with java

[chaokunyang]

Feature Request

align object graph xlang serialization with java

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe

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Describe the solution you'd like

Refactor java/fory-core/src/test/java/org/apache/fory/RustXlangTest.java, and add xlang_test_main.cc in cpp/fory/serialization. Build binary for xlang tests, then add ci

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