[Feature] CDC Action supports update and delete record (logical deletion)

[melin]

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Motivation

有一个很常见的场景，在一些政府部门（医保数据上报）。市向省、省向国家层层上报数据，需要保留删除和修改数据，防止下一级删除数据。在目标表有一个标记字段，记录是删除，更新和插入。

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