[postgresql] Fix debezium-postgresql data loss

[minchowang]

fixed: https://github.com/ververica/flink-cdc-connectors/issues/1893

[yuxiqian]

Thanks for your contribution! Before this PR could be merged, could you please rebase it with latest master branch?

cc @leonardBang

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