[ISSUE #4788] Support disruptor as memory queue

[jevinjiang]

Fixes https://github.com/apache/eventmesh/issues/4788

Motivation Support disruptor as memory queue https://github.com/apache/eventmesh/issues/4788

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• Does this pull request introduce a new feature? (no)

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[jevinjiang]

do i need to do something？

[Pil0tXia]

Closing and will reopen to re-run CI.

[Pil0tXia]

@jevinjiang Merged. Sorry for the lengthy review cycle on this PR.

[jevinjiang]

@Pil0tXia No problem. I was a bit busy recently, but I will continue to contribute