feat: Validator supports automatic switch

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What is the purpose of the change

In the newer versions of Hibernate-validator, the package names of the relevant validation implementation classes have been migrated from javax to jakarta.

Dubbo has been support new validator with jakarta in #9552 , but the setting of default validator is implement with javax, if the user is not configured to use a new validator under the SpringBoot3, an NoClassDefFoundError will be throw.

If the validator supports automatic switch, this will reduce a lot of configuration processes for users.

related with #12401 #12465

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