fix multi application context when use AwaitingNonWebApplicationListener

[laywin]

What is the purpose of the change

fix https://github.com/apache/dubbo/issues/13722

Brief changelog

1. remove root application context judgment condition, the AwaitingNonWebApplicationListener can only be invoked in the application context which it registered.

2. add shutdownHookCallback member variable to ensure there is only one shutdownHookCallback instance to register

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[sonarqubecloud[bot]]

Quality Gate passed

Issues
0 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
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80.0% Coverage on New Code
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All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests :white_check_mark:

Project coverage is 70.51%. Comparing base (0553d70) to head (00ccb03).

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[laywin]

@AlbumenJ PTAL