[Bug] Unable to perceive the latest subscription services

[6Glory9]

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Apache Dubbo Component

Java SDK (apache/dubbo)

Dubbo Version

dubbo 3.2.12

Steps to reproduce this issue

1. Get two instances here, one of which is about to die.
2. Both instances establish NettyConnectionClient, synchronised connection server appears to wait. At this point one of the instances is offline. The local nacos local cache is already listening for the latest metadata info.
3. Wait for all the NettyConnectionClient to complete, at which point the subscription relationship is done. Unable to trigger

What you expected to happen

Refreshing the service

Anything else

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[AlbumenJ]

We need a better way to get and listen service in one time. But maybe nacos not support?

[finefuture]

Maybe we can adjust the order of events, such as registering a listener first and then getting the instance list for notify.

[AlbumenJ]

Maybe we can adjust the order of events, such as registering a listener first and then getting the instance list for notify.

1. Will zk work as expected?
2. Will nacos work as expected?

[finefuture]

Maybe we can adjust the order of events, such as registering a listener first and then getting the instance list for notify.

1. Will zk work as expected?
2. Will nacos work as expected?

I think this will work, and I am currently drawing this flowchart.