[feature] add write blocking properties to control write blocking.

[CodeCooker17]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

Problem Summary:

Describe the overview of changes. add three config to control write blocking. Prevent write failure due to cpmpaction not being timely to improve write success rate. --- max blocking times "doris.sink.max.blocking.times" = "8",
--- max blocking interval times per blocking "doris.sink.max.blocking.interval.ms" = "300000", --- need to blocking write keys "doris.sink.block.trigger.keys" = "-235,-238,-233"

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[gnehil]

After the optimization PR of https://github.com/apache/doris-spark-connector/pull/140, doris will stream the data when writing in http chuck mode, which to a certain extent avoids the compaction problems caused by large batch data load. And these exception codes are abnormal phenomena caused by doris failures, so they should be exposed and repaired on the doris side, and should not be blocked during writing.