Defer ListingTable Path Creation To Write

[tustvold]

Which issue does this PR close?

Part of #7994

Rationale for this change

This is part of the general ticket of making the file IO story more coherent and less surprising.

What changes are included in this PR?

Are these changes tested?

Are there any user-facing changes?

[tustvold]

I'm not sure if this counts as an API change, I defer to the reviewers

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