Stop copying LogicalPlan and Exprs in `OptimizeProjections` (2% faster planning)

[alamb]

Note this also has the changes from https://github.com/apache/datafusion/pull/10410 in it

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes https://github.com/apache/datafusion/issues/10209

Rationale for this change

Make planning faster by not copying as much

What changes are included in this PR?

1. Rewrite OptimizeProjections to use treenode APIs

Are these changes tested?

Existing tests

Are there any user-facing changes?

1. More types of projections can be combined (e.g. CASE expressions)
2. Faster planning

Benchmark Results show a moderate improvement (2% overall in tpch, but some queries like Q3 are like 10% faster)

Details

++ critcmp main projection_pushdown
group                                         main                                   projection_pushdown
-----                                         ----                                   -------------------
logical_aggregate_with_join                   1.01  1217.9±11.93µs        ? ?/sec    1.00  1208.1±12.12µs        ? ?/sec
logical_plan_tpcds_all                        1.00    160.7±1.72ms        ? ?/sec    1.00    160.6±1.78ms        ? ?/sec
logical_plan_tpch_all                         1.02     17.1±0.20ms        ? ?/sec    1.00     16.8±0.21ms        ? ?/sec
logical_select_all_from_1000                  1.00     18.7±0.14ms        ? ?/sec    1.01     18.9±0.11ms        ? ?/sec
logical_select_one_from_700                   1.01    820.9±9.73µs        ? ?/sec    1.00   816.1±20.75µs        ? ?/sec
logical_trivial_join_high_numbered_columns    1.00   765.5±18.71µs        ? ?/sec    1.00   764.8±64.26µs        ? ?/sec
logical_trivial_join_low_numbered_columns     1.01    749.8±8.67µs        ? ?/sec    1.00    742.3±7.49µs        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpcds_all                       1.03  1364.1±11.01ms        ? ?/sec    1.00  1330.1±16.93ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_all                        1.03     94.8±1.43ms        ? ?/sec    1.00     92.1±1.28ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q1                         1.06      5.2±0.05ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      4.9±0.07ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q10                        1.03      4.4±0.06ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      4.3±0.08ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q11                        1.02      3.9±0.06ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      3.8±0.08ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q12                        1.00      3.0±0.04ms        ? ?/sec    1.02      3.1±0.06ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q13                        1.03      2.1±0.04ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      2.1±0.03ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q14                        1.08      2.9±0.07ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      2.7±0.04ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q16                        1.06      3.8±0.06ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      3.6±0.05ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q17                        1.04      3.6±0.07ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      3.5±0.07ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q18                        1.07      4.1±0.05ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      3.9±0.05ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q19                        1.10      6.5±0.07ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      5.9±0.07ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q2                         1.04      8.0±0.04ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      7.7±0.09ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q20                        1.04      4.8±0.06ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      4.6±0.06ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q21                        1.02      6.4±0.08ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      6.2±0.06ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q22                        1.00      3.4±0.06ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      3.4±0.08ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q3                         1.11      3.4±0.07ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      3.1±0.06ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q4                         1.12      2.5±0.04ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      2.2±0.02ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q5                         1.09      4.8±0.05ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      4.4±0.06ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q6                         1.05  1615.2±30.14µs        ? ?/sec    1.00  1543.2±24.24µs        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q7                         1.03      5.9±0.06ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      5.7±0.09ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q8                         1.02      7.5±0.15ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      7.4±0.08ms        ? ?/sec
physical_plan_tpch_q9                         1.01      5.6±0.07ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      5.5±0.11ms        ? ?/sec
physical_select_all_from_1000                 1.01     61.5±0.34ms        ? ?/sec    1.00     61.2±0.52ms        ? ?/sec
physical_select_one_from_700                  1.02      3.7±0.05ms        ? ?/sec    1.00      3.6±0.04ms        ? ?/sec