Consider using `with_skip_validation` for shuffle file reading

[milenkovicm]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.

Improve shuffle reading, with https://github.com/apache/arrow-rs/pull/7120 merged consider using it for shuffle files.

Describe the solution you'd like

Change shuffle reader to utilise new api.

Describe alternatives you've considered

Keep everything as it is

Additional context

• we could try to address #944 at the same time

[westhide]

/take

[westhide]

For references

• Benchmarks for Arrow IPC reader
• Benchmarks for Arrow IPC writer
• Add with_skip_validation flag to IPC StreamReader, FileReader and FileDecoder

WIP Improve

• Improve Spill Performance: mmap the spill files
• A collection of tickets for improving sorting larger than memory datasets / spilling sorts

Base on arrow-rs

Minimum arrow-rs release version 54.3.0 support with_skip_validation

• Update version to 54.3.0 and update CHANGELOG