EventDispatcher supports various IO types

[chenBright]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: resolve #2381

Problem Summary:

What is changed and the side effects?

Changed:

1. 将SocketId的功能抽象到VersionedRefWithId，满足类似SocketId的需求。只要实现OnCreate、OnFailed、OnRecycle接口即可。
2. EventDispatcher支持多种IO类型。在EventDispatcher和具体IO对象之间加入一层EventData对象（包含IO对象id、读事件回调函数、写事件回调函数）。在1的基础上，实现EventDataId，代替EventDispatcher中的SocketId。IO对象创建自己的EventData并持有EventDataId，将其注册到EventDispatcher。当有事件触发时，EventDispatcher通过EventDataId找到EventData，执行对应的回调函数。

Side effects:

• Performance effects(性能影响):

• Breaking backward compatibility(向后兼容性):

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