feat: Add option to control resource cleanup failure for IT

[liferoad]

Adds a failOnCleanup parameter to the cleanResources method in ResourceManagerUtils, allowing callers to specify whether an exception should be thrown when resource cleanup fails.

This provides more control over the test failure behavior, with the default set to false to avoid throwing exceptions on cleanup failures.

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