[Subtask]: Support SparkOptimizerContainer in Amoro Helm.

[baiyangtx]

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Description

1. Remove the spark-optimizer from amoro Image.
2. Support spark optimizer container in charts/amoro/values.yaml.

Parent issue

#2567

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