fix: optimize drag performance while selecting multiple nodes

[xiawenqi]

Description

fix #1325

Motivation and Context

当利用框选插件选中多个节点时，拖拽性能下降非常严重。主要原因是插件监听了节点的change事件，当节点拖拽时多次触发重新创建节点，大量的DOM操作导致页面卡顿。

解决方式为不再在节点change时触发重新创建选框，改为分别监听节点的position、angle、size变更事件，position时只需要变更选框位置，angle和size变更时重绘选框DOM。

对比选中200节点时的拖拽效果, 优化前：

https://github.com/antvis/X6/assets/3120383/20d5a101-91b0-48fd-bb1f-9628e960b722

优化后：

https://github.com/antvis/X6/assets/3120383/dfcfd18a-8519-4c0d-ab3e-699a6661c175

Types of changes

• [x] Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• [ ] New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• [ ] Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)
• [ ] Enhancement (changes that improvement of current feature or performance)
• [ ] Refactoring (changes that neither fixes a bug nor adds a feature)
• [ ] Test Case (changes that add missing tests or correct existing tests)
• [ ] Code style optimization (changes that do not affect the meaning of the code)
• [ ] Docs (changes that only update documentation)
• [ ] Chore (changes that don't modify src or test files)

Self Check before Merge

• [x] My code follows the code style of this project.
• [ ] My change requires a change to the documentation.
• [ ] I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• [x] I have read the CONTRIBUTING document.
• [ ] I have added tests to cover my changes.
• [x] All new and existing tests passed.

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[OpportunityLiu]

egde 的事件忘了？