feat: add npm releasing github action, and enhance the server watch mode

[mamboer]

Description

1. Add npm releasing automation
2. Enhance watch mode of the server module, make the server restarting more gracefully

Additional context

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What is the purpose of this pull request?

• [ ] Bug fix
• [x] New Feature
• [ ] Documentation update
• [ ] Other

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