Add timeout value to cli, fix metadata error, cross builds, update dependencies

[sero01000]

1. Added timeout argument to cli 1.1 Default timeout changed from 0.05 seconds to 1 second
2. Fixed metadata error for windows
3. Update cargo.toml for better link time optimizations and update all crates version
4. Cross build and release action for 20 platforms

[stevelr]

Thanks for this. I ran into timeout error also, as the default 50ms wasn't sufficient (in my case, the connection was over a multi-hop vpn). I support the additional error type also: The error message for AddrTypeNotSupported isn't helpful to diagnose the timeout. I had prepared a PR to submit these two changes then found this (oops - should have looked first!)