[Bug]: Document the c++14 bazel footgun

[simmonmt]

Describe the issue

abseil requires c++14 or greater. The current version of bazel, out of the box, doesn't pass the necessary flags to enable c++14 or greater, resulting in an error when you try to follow the abseil bazel quickstart. I understand that work is in progress (https://github.com/bazelbuild/bazel/issues/18181) to address this in bazel, but in the meantime please consider updating the quickstart. The quickstart should be as easy to use as possible, and yet as written it sends the reader on a merry chase to stackoverflow etc just to get a hello world integration with abseil to work. That shouldn't be necessary, and seems like it'd act as a repellent to new users.

Steps to reproduce the problem

Follow the quickstart

What version of Abseil are you using?

20230125.1

What operating system and version are you using?

OS X 13.3.1a

What compiler and version are you using?

Using built-in specs. COLLECT_GCC=gcc COLLECT_LTO_WRAPPER=/usr/lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/lto-wrapper OFFLOAD_TARGET_NAMES=nvptx-none:amdgcn-amdhsa OFFLOAD_TARGET_DEFAULT=1 Target: x86_64-linux-gnu Configured with: ../src/configure -v --with-pkgversion='Ubuntu 11.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04' --with-bugurl=file:///usr/share/doc/gcc-11/README.Bugs --enable-languages=c,ada,c++,go,brig,d,fortran,objc,obj-c++,m2 --prefix=/usr --with-gcc-major-version-only --program-suffix=-11 --program-prefix=x86_64-linux-gnu- --enable-shared --enable-linker-build-id --libexecdir=/usr/lib --without-included-gettext --enable-threads=posix --libdir=/usr/lib --enable-nls --enable-bootstrap --enable-clocale=gnu --enable-libstdcxx-debug --enable-libstdcxx-time=yes --with-default-libstdcxx-abi=new --enable-gnu-unique-object --disable-vtable-verify --enable-plugin --enable-default-pie --with-system-zlib --enable-libphobos-checking=release --with-target-system-zlib=auto --enable-objc-gc=auto --enable-multiarch --disable-werror --enable-cet --with-arch-32=i686 --with-abi=m64 --with-multilib-list=m32,m64,mx32 --enable-multilib --with-tune=generic --enable-offload-targets=nvptx-none=/build/gcc-11-xKiWfi/gcc-11-11.3.0/debian/tmp-nvptx/usr,amdgcn-amdhsa=/build/gcc-11-xKiWfi/gcc-11-11.3.0/debian/tmp-gcn/usr --without-cuda-driver --enable-checking=release --build=x86_64-linux-gnu --host=x86_64-linux-gnu --target=x86_64-linux-gnu --with-build-config=bootstrap-lto-lean --enable-link-serialization=2 Thread model: posix Supported LTO compression algorithms: zlib zstd gcc version 11.3.0 (Ubuntu 11.3.0-1ubuntu1~22.04)

What build system are you using?

bazel 6.1.2

Additional context

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