Make `@preact-signals/query` compatible with `@tanstack/react-query` v5

[XantreDev]

Test cases and api must be updated

[aboire]

Hello, Do you have any idea when you will update it to version 5?

[XantreDev]

For now I don't have enough time for it. I'm thinking about how to keep the query library in sync with the main one without too much maintenance effort