42743 Disable wp_options autoload for inactive widgets

[eclarke1]

Any work for this issue should be completed against https://core.trac.wordpress.org/ticket/42743 please

[spacedmonkey]

@eclarke1 Assigned to database for now. But this change is part of the autoload options epic.

[mukeshpanchal27]

@eclarke1 This ticket is not part of 6.4 milestone so i'm going to remove it from milestone. cc. @spacedmonkey