fix: Avoid duplicate call to autoreset by removing the wrap in `_queue`

[smaspe]

Fix https://github.com/TanStack/table/issues/6025

the onChange in the memo options is always called once on initialization, for each model.

Several models enqueue a call to _autoResetPageIndex (core model, sorted model, grouped model), which are all resolved together in a Promise. They should all evaluate registered === false.

However, because the call in getGroupedRowModel is wrapped in another layer of _queue: https://github.com/TanStack/table/blob/0cc6992c7836489661a0954a2b56e620850ad4da/packages/table-core/src/utils/getGroupedRowModel.ts#L168-L173 the call to _autoResetPageIndex actually resolves later, once registered is true, and it calls table.resetPageIndex().

The wrap in _queue is also not present in https://github.com/TanStack/table/blob/0cc6992c7836489661a0954a2b56e620850ad4da/packages/table-core/src/utils/getCoreRowModel.ts#L78-L80 or in https://github.com/TanStack/table/blob/0cc6992c7836489661a0954a2b56e620850ad4da/packages/table-core/src/utils/getSortedRowModel.ts#L117-L119

As far as I can tell it should not be there.