fix(selection): update logic to fix selection of disabled rows

[simcha90]

Fix issue:

https://github.com/TanStack/table/issues/5398

We updated logic for selection of disabled rows (at least for pagination).

Here next possible flows:

1. One row disabled and selected then click on Footer checkbox:

• if all other rows selected - Footer checkbox: SELECTED
• if all other rows unselected - Footer checkbox: INDETERMINATE

2. One row disabled and unselected then click on Footer checkbox:

• if all other rows selected - Footer checkbox: INDETERMINATE
• if all other rows unselected - Footer checkbox: UNSELECTED

3. One row disabled and selected and One row disabled and unselected then click on Footer checkbox:

• if all other rows selected - Footer checkbox: INDETERMINATE
• if all other rows unselected - Footer checkbox: INDETERMINATE

Status of all enabled checkboxes always will be toggled, but sign inside Footer checkbox will show real state of all checkboxes

P.S. Also getToggleAllRowsSelectedHandler respect disabled checkboxes