feat: add ability to pass value to listeners

[crutchcorn]

This PR adds the ability to pass a value to our listeners (optionally) thru our APIs.

This is not really intended to be used by the general public, but rather for our needs internally, IE refactoring the Subscribable class in TanStack Query:

https://github.com/TanStack/query/pull/6799

This has no breaking changes, and is a purely additive change