[BugFix] In a concurrency scenario, after a tablet is deleted, its corresponding data directory still exists.

[zhangheihei]

Why I'm doing:

What I'm doing:

Fixes #50383

What type of PR is this:

• [x] BugFix
• [ ] Feature
• [ ] Enhancement
• [ ] Refactor
• [ ] UT
• [ ] Doc
• [ ] Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• [x] Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• [ ] No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• [x] Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• [ ] Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• [ ] Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• [ ] Feature removed
• [ ] Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• [x] I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• [ ] This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • [ ] I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• [ ] This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• [x] I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • [x] 3.3
  • [x] 3.2
  • [x] 3.1
  • [ ] 3.0
  • [ ] 2.5

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[Java-Extensions Incremental Coverage Report]

:white_check_mark: pass : 0 / 0 (0%)

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[FE Incremental Coverage Report]

:white_check_mark: pass : 0 / 0 (0%)

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[BE Incremental Coverage Report]

:x: fail : 47 / 63 (74.60%)

file detail

	path	covered_line	new_line	coverage	not_covered_line_detail
:large_blue_circle:	be/src/storage/tablet_manager.cpp	47	63	74.60%	[1021, 1022, 1023, 1033, 1034, 1035, 1038, 1039, 1040, 1044, 1045, 1050, 1051, 1053, 1054, 1055]

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@Mergifyio backport branch-3.3

[github-actions[bot]]

@Mergifyio backport branch-3.2

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@Mergifyio backport branch-3.1

[mergify[bot]]

backport branch-3.3

✅ Backports have been created

• #51051 [BugFix] In a concurrency scenario, after a tablet is deleted, its corresponding data directory still exists. (backport #50382) has been created for branch branch-3.3

[mergify[bot]]

backport branch-3.2

✅ Backports have been created

• #51052 [BugFix] In a concurrency scenario, after a tablet is deleted, its corresponding data directory still exists. (backport #50382) has been created for branch branch-3.2

[mergify[bot]]

backport branch-3.1

✅ Backports have been created

• #51053 [BugFix] In a concurrency scenario, after a tablet is deleted, its corresponding data directory still exists. (backport #50382) has been created for branch branch-3.1 but encountered conflicts