[Enhancement] Optimize automatic partition concurrent create partition

[meegoo]

Why I'm doing:

Currently, multiple parallel automatic create partition requests will result in the simultaneous creation of multiple identical partitions. Although only one partition is eventually effective when updating the metadata, this consumes a significant amount of resources. Therefore, we implement locking based on partition name before creating the partition to ensure that only one request is made to create a partition.

What I'm doing:

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• [ ] BugFix
• [ ] Feature
• [x] Enhancement
• [ ] Refactor
• [ ] UT
• [ ] Doc
• [ ] Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• [ ] Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• [x] No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• [ ] Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• [ ] Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• [ ] Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• [ ] Feature removed
• [ ] Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• [x] I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• [ ] This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • [ ] I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• [ ] This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• [x] I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • [x] 3.3
  • [x] 3.2
  • [x] 3.1
  • [ ] 3.0
  • [ ] 2.5

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[BE Incremental Coverage Report]

:white_check_mark: pass : 0 / 0 (0%)

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[FE Incremental Coverage Report]

:white_check_mark: pass : 38 / 43 (88.37%)

file detail

	path	covered_line	new_line	coverage	not_covered_line_detail
:large_blue_circle:	com/starrocks/service/FrontendServiceImpl.java	9	13	69.23%	[2305, 2306, 2307, 2308]
:large_blue_circle:	com/starrocks/catalog/CatalogUtils.java	12	13	92.31%	[104]
:large_blue_circle:	com/starrocks/transaction/TransactionState.java	17	17	100.00%	[]

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@Mergifyio backport branch-3.3

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@Mergifyio backport branch-3.2

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@Mergifyio backport branch-3.1

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backport branch-3.3

✅ Backports have been created

• #45385 [Enhancement] Optimize automatic partition concurrent create partition (backport #45033) has been created for branch branch-3.3

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backport branch-3.2

✅ Backports have been created

• #45386 [Enhancement] Optimize automatic partition concurrent create partition (backport #45033) has been created for branch branch-3.2 but encountered conflicts

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backport branch-3.1

✅ Backports have been created

• #45387 [Enhancement] Optimize automatic partition concurrent create partition (backport #45033) has been created for branch branch-3.1 but encountered conflicts