update to minecraft 1.19 (and java 17)

[rremer]

Ah, was just going to start upgrading things (this depends on https://github.com/Siphalor/ModsOfTheWorld/pull/5 ), but just found your 1.19-2.0 branch and rebased against that, here's the changes probably worth keeping.

Will let you breath and upgrade at your own pace, but if you'd like a hand upgrading the other libs or playtesting, let me know. My goal here is to have a 1.19 spiceoffabric, of which this is a dep.