Mod specific exceptions for Armored Elytra and Charmonium

[SilverAndro]

Discussed on discord, now in issue form!

Theres currently 2 mods that need loader flags to work on quilt, being:

• Armored Elytra (armored-elytra) needs to be loaded late so that mixin places its mixin after QSL's
• Charmonium (charmonium) needs to be jar copied for resource loading reasons https://github.com/svenhjol/Charmonium/issues/62