Fix Node.js binding path to match node-pre-gyp versioning

[afarber]

Fix #7272 by:

• Update BINDING_DIR from lib/binding to lib/binding_napi_v8 to align with node-pre-gyp's versioning conventions
• Add file(MAKE_DIRECTORY) to create the binding directory during CMake configuration
• Update all references in lib/index.js, package.json, CI scripts, and documentation

Tasklist

• [x] CHANGELOG.md entry (How to write a changelog entry)
• [ ] update relevant Wiki pages
• [ ] add tests (see testing documentation)
• [ ] review
• [ ] adjust for comments

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[afarber]

Hi @DennisOSRM and @SiarheiFedartsou please take a look at my fix

[YoelRidgway]

Thanks for this @afarber. I wasted so much time trying to understand what was going on!