Edge deletions add events in the history of the src and dst

[miratepuffin]

Edge deletions currently require an addition event in the history of the source and destination node - we need to double check if this is a sensible semantic and if it isn't if there is some way of avoiding doing so.

Originally posted by @miratepuffin in https://github.com/Pometry/Raphtory/pull/1049#discussion_r1232237787