Make general performance/operational configuration easier to configure for transports

[kbaley]

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Users shouldn't need to know all of the details of how transport specific settings work. What they know is generally how my handler (endpoint) processes messages and what those messages need.

For some, the handler needs to be fast, and they want to process messages as fast as possible. For others, the handler needs as much time as possible to process a message, they don't want to churn messages because a lock/transaction is lost.