Re-network the DIT, fix some parameters, and simplify the model networking code

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Latest optimization: Re-network DIT, simplify the original model dynamic graph into a high-performance model network,

1. For the core that consumes more time: the transformer part uses paddle.incubate.jit.inference to do dynamic and static conversion, and removes redundant parts in the loop;
2. We also use some triton operators for artificial operator fusion;
3. We also use horizontal fusion operators to merge horizontal operators for calculation;
4. We use the cutlass library for optimization and acceleration;

Currently facebook-DIT takes: 219.936 ms