Change how the blackoilmodules are setup

[akva2]

remove member function for initing from EclipseState

instead add a method to provide parameters externally. this decouples the classes from the structures in opm-common, and at the same time adds the ability to use the classes without an EclipseState, making the code more reusable.

i'm not sure if this is a good idea or not. i like the lessening of headers pulled in, and the ability to build this code once. i dislike moving the configuration out of the classes themself.

[akva2]

jenkins build this opm-simulators=4122 please